Are you someone who often prioritizes others’ happiness over your own? Do you find it difficult to say “no” and fear letting people down? While being a people pleaser may seem like a noble trait, it can unfortunately make you a target for various types of abuse. In today’s video, I delve deep into the dark side of people-pleasing — revealing how it can attract abusers and what you can do to protect yourself.
First, I’ll explain how seemingly charming individuals can turn into abusers, manipulating your kind nature for their own benefit. I’ll identify the seven types of abusers that every people pleaser should be aware of, including narcissists, control freaks, and more. Understanding these patterns is crucial to preventing abuse before it starts.
But that’s not all — stay tuned until the end of the video, where I share my top ten tips on how to protect yourself from these harmful individuals. These strategies will help you assert your needs, establish boundaries, and ultimately, safeguard your well-being.
Remember, acknowledging the need for self-protection does not make you less kind or generous — it makes you smart and self-respecting. If you’re ready to learn how to keep your kindness from being exploited, hit play and let’s get started on transforming your people-pleasing habits into a source of strength.
Thank you for watching, and remember: being kind doesn’t mean you have to tolerate disrespect or abuse. Let’s learn how to protect our peace together.
